Category: Don’t Judge Me











Warning: I am going to write F*ck You…..quite a bit… warned.

The University of Michigan KNEW 20 years before the investigation into his crimes, that Dr. Nassar was raping and molesting young girls. The USA Gymnastics Association, forced victims to sign non-disclosure agreements to protect itself against litigation, and publicity. The ones paid to protect the Little Sisters, purposely failed to protect them. In other words, the policing department….took a bribe to look the other way.

MONSTER.…may the ones whom protected him, all rot in hell….

Reading the news this morning, Merrill makes note that I must be reading something that disturbs me, because my knitted brows, and the back and forth of my head, must mean, I mean pissed. I’m flabbergasted, completely pissed, that over 100 Little Sisters were raped and molested, and the Guardian “Angels” stayed quite. Tell ya what, let me take an innocent puppy and throw it into traffic…..let me try to do it 100 times. Better yet, I’ll just drop them off an interstate overpass, right into oncoming traffic… how far I get, before someone stops me. Monster.…I’m fixing to use some language here folks.

What is it with people who know, and do nothing? What is so important and regal about their existence, that they’d sacrifice a Little Sister? I mean, are they better?  Do they honestly believe their life has more value? How do you watch the sacrifice of Little Sisters, and say nothing? That’s not a cultural issue, that’s a crime……and I gotta wonder, how many F*cking people knew? Dozens… about dozens of people knew….anyone of them had to power to stop this monster (and mine) in his tracks, and each one, chose not too…..I guess they didn’t want to offend him…..they didn’t want to offend my monster either….far as I know, he’s out there, still raping…..but screw those little girls….I got my own problems! Does that piss you off? Good!

And so, you cannot have the honor of influence over a Little Bro and Sis, without taking the honor seriously. What you protect in the dark, will be brought to light, and I will spend the rest of my light, making sure the University of Michigan pays for their crimes. As part of the sentencing phase (of which he can get 125 years in prison), each little girl, now an adult, gets to make a statement to him. I was watching a few of them….I could see the little girl inside of them, out from the internal stronghold, grateful for the chance to finally stand up to him, and bring him down….I’ve seen that fist-shaking stance on Duchess many times……I wonder, do the monsters have any idea what it’s like to be different… KNOW you’re different….To watch people stroll through life, without the fear of FEAR… feel less than worthy… KNOW that only because you were white trash were you singled out……Do they know what it’s like to not trust their spouse? To always be guarded….even IF they’ve been with the same person for almost 25 years? Those who knew, were just as culpable in destroying lives, as the monster himself….and they deserve the same room in HELL that he will occupy….but because God forgives ALL (better Him than I), I guess I’ll defer that judgment to the one who knows better. Monster.….F*ck you University of Michigan, F*uck you Olympic Gymnastic team, and F*ck you Dr. Nassar……what you all did was drop puppies on the interstate….and no one stopped you…..Is it weird that we protect animals more than we protect our Little Siblings? Bravo to the Little Sisters who faced him….you are the true hero’s of society….that was NOT easy… give us all strength to go on. Monster…..I hope God drops Him off a cliff from Heaven….that’s a punishment I’d watch….May God have forgiveness on my soul, for my hatred……Don’t Judge Me. Be Blessed.


Remember you set The Tone, you ARE the Example. Be KIND to each other. Show GRACE and MERCY to all those who cross your path today. With your Daily Affirmations complete…..


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Part 2 of the research..

Ronnie: Are you willing to answer a few questions if I keep your name and business out of the story?

Omar: (Giggle) Ask away….

Ronnie: I have a friend with pain issues….

Omar: Marijuana is legal in California. You don’t need to have “friends” anymore. We don’t judge..

I did a quick Google search; which is weird YO, and found a few numbers for dispensaries here. The first one I called was only taxed and licensed to deal in medical marijuana cases, but they were very eager and willing to give me the name of the second dispensary; which was licensed to deal in medical, AND recreational “medicine”….Surreal….I kept looking over my shoulder, in my own home, the entire time I was on the phone.

Omar was about as knowledgeable about marijuana as a Pharmacist is about drugs, only Omar had a lot more patience with me. Telling him I had no idea what I was talking about, he advised me regarding different strokes for different folks, and if I didn’t really know better, I’d swear I was talking to a doctor…”I don’t want to be couch stoned (a term I learned on Google)” I told him, but he had me before I could go on, “Well then you’re going to want the Savita blend. I’ll tell you what, let me chose for you. We’ll deliver by 7:30pm”…..Wait….You Deliver? Don’t be bringing the Coppers here to me…”Um, my neighbors” I began, but again, he stopped me, “Half you neighbor’s are my customers”….Oh…well no HIPAA worries here…..

So this isn’t your mother’s Ganja anymore. Not the 70’s skunk weed, it’s grown, (demure and all), into a legit multi-million dollar business. What we now have, is a business, once thought to be dirty and seedy, that has been sanitized and legitimized, appropriately taxed (like 20%), and regulated for purity and quality. To make it even more Surreal…what was once a transaction conducted behind the trash cans on a dark corner, is now an out in the open enterprise, with delivery drivers making appointments to show up on your doorstep. I can order marijuana, and the follow up pizza at the same time….Merrill commented, “And YET there are people serving hard time in prison for this”….well YES….That’s what happens when the government gets involved in sh*t it has no business getting into. It’s Surreal….no more excuses, no more “friends”, just call, order, deliver and pay….Omar understood my hesitation, my questions, my preconceived notions…”It’s the Dawn of a new day” he hinted at me….I guess we’ll see where this new/old medical technology leads us, but for now I’ll just wait and see how the Government intervenes in this. After all, it seems like a good thing, and we all know that anything good and pure cannot be allowed to thrive in this country….Omar gave me his number….so Nefarious right? He’s waiting to hear back from me….LOL….Don’t Judge Me. Be Blessed.

I really WANT to interview athletes whom use, regarding their performance.


Remember you set The Tone, you ARE The Example. BE KIND to each other. Show GRACE and MERCY to all those who cross your path today. With your Daily Affirmations complete, enjoy your Saturday.

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Alrighty Then





(How It All Began)….

Does marijuana reduce sexual desire in females?

Now that marijuana is legal in Cali, I was advised to try it for my arthritis…..I said, “No, it takes away motivation and desire”….she said it did not, and it was an amazing pain killer (which I do acknowledge).

Which is it?

“Girl, I’ll hook you up with a strain that will turn you into a sex goddess”….good friend.

After posing a question on Facebook, I was totally unprepared for the avalanche of responses I received regarding marijuana and it’s (apparently) very useful purposes. You never know what goes on behind closed doors do you? I have much respect for those who took the time to personally address my questions, and for those who sent me dozens (dozens y’all) private messages regarding their experiences, and their very well intended concerns. Alrighty Then….it may just be that I am now at a point in my life where I am too old to care about what you do, in your personal life.

Like silicone boob jobs of the 70’s and 80’s, marijuana has apparently come a long way. It’s amazing what medical science can do, when it’s not out to judge people’s choices. What do you think has contributed to the change in perception regarding Mary Jane? Like a HS skeezer, whose matured and changed, is it possible that the ganja has also matured over the decades? Are we looking at a decent, respectable PTA mom? After all, I’m not the same person I was back at Zwei, so really, are we talking about a new improved weed….or is it more likely….that people are just less into judging others than they used to be, and if that’s true, do you think that pursuing alternative medicines, regardless of how polarizing they used to be, would still be considered a sin, in today’s society?

I think the answer can be found in both camps. I still don’t buy the “Don’t Judge ANYONE” mantra, because judging each other is how we tend to keep ourselves, and most of society safe, YET, I also believe we develop harmful perceptions based upon facts we don’t know. For example, marijuana isn’t the 70’s John Lennon, long-haired, hippy companion it used to be, however, the staunch opponents and aging white conservatives (gonna take some heat for that), are going to continue to put out the vibe that it’s just for those who have no ambition in life…. Fair enough, yet I contend that what we’re doing now, in the area of pain control, isn’t helping either. Society was just fine, until it wasn’t…and now, we still have pain….just no means of addressing it. Truth is, I don’t see Medicine keeping up with the population like me, in pain, yet young enough to still want to LIVE my LIFE; which is interesting enough, what lead to my question about sex! California really does have this one right y’all…..and it does pain me to admit that.

I really don’t know where my research is going to take me, but I do know if you’re successful bullying the doctor/patient relationship, you’ll be successful in bullying the pulpit/congretation relationship. Think that’s extreme? I’ll guess we’ll find out in about 10 years. How do you account for the rapid OD deaths daily? It certainly isn’t because the pain killers that once controlled pain are now illegal….Don’t get that twisted, it’s because Congress, in their idiotic reasoning, decided that a society on painkillers, was a society expendable. I can go outside right now, and purchase heroine, a very powerful pain suppressant, but I cannot ask a doctor for hydrocodone? There’s something wrong there, and understand that while one is legal (barely) the other wouldn’t be so tempting, had the FED’s kept their mouth shut. Give me a Congressman who understands pain, and I’ll show you a future leader of America…..I gotta go. The story doesn’t end here…..I actually called a dispensary yesterday, and interviewed a very nice, helpful, educated man, whose name I promised not to mention….We’ll talk about his story tomorrow. Alrighty Then…..I’m not judging anymore. We all have our cross to bear… I read enough yesterday to take away the stigma, and to realize that weed is hip….LOL….it’s the new cocaine of the millennial….I’m kidding…..but really it’ll be fun to see where this research goes….I’m going to the gym now to see how many hip California moms are willing to be interviewed….should be fun. Stay Tuned…Be Blessed.

Remember you set The Tone, you ARE the Example. BE KIND to each other. Show GRACE and MERCY to all those who cross your path today. With your Daily Affirmations complete, enjoy your Thursday.

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Kate Spade Wellesley Rachelle

Red Kate Spade







Red Kate Spade Wellesley Rachelle. Excellent condition, used only once. Excellent Christmas idea. Free Shipping.


Dimensions: 12″ x 9″ x 5″ with 4″ handle drop

Price: $60

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Kate Spade Wellesley Rachelle

Kate Spade Dark Blue







Dark Blue Kate Spade Wellesley Rachelle bag. Excellent condition. Used only once. Authentic, and a great Christmas present this holiday season.

Measurements: 12″ x 9″ x 5″ with 4″ handle drop

Price: $60

Shipping: Free

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Vintage Gucci Drawstring Bucket







Vintage Gucci Drawstring bag. It does have wear. Suede shedding on the inside, leather strap and bottom wear. Would still make a great Christmas gift.

Authentic, just well worn. Wear on piping, and inside suede. Still a great bag, used for the Kentucky Derby. Price reflected to show wear.

Price: $35.00

Shipping: $7.00


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Vera Bradley Pinwheel Pink




Vera Bradley Pinwheel Pink, (Retired) 5-pc set. Some pieces in excellent condition, some not so much. The available picture should show you condition. Excellent gift collection for the Vera Bradley lover in your home.

Large Duffel Bag

Book Bag


Small purse

Medium purse

Entire set: $55.00

Priority Mail Shipping: $12.00

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Boys Athletic Pants (7)







Nike and Under Armour Boys Athletic Pants (7)

Grey, yellow and black Nike pants (7)

Black and Red Under Armour (7)

Gray and green Under Armour (7) I’m throwing in for free, as it has wear right below the knee (see pictures).

They are used, but clean.

Price: $25

Shipping: Free

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Dooney & Bourke Mini Bubble







Retired Dooney & Bourke Mini Bubble. (Sm East/West Slouch).100% pre-owned, authentic bag. It is a little dusty from being in storage, but clean up is easy, and I will send instructions with winning purchase. Excellent first Dooney choice. Please contact me with any questions you may have. Additional pictures, including authenticity tag, available upon request.

Adjustable strap: 8.25′

Price: $20

Priority Mail Shipping: $7.00


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Dooney & Bourke Chevron Satchel






Authentic, Dooney & Bourke Chevron Satchel. Large, pink and white pebbled leather, zebra pattern. Two Years old, excellent condition. Used only twice. Excellent Christmas gift. I didn’t appreciate it enough, even though it was and is, a beautiful bag. Additional pictures available upon request, including authenticity tag.

Similar bags on eBay are selling for well over $100, but you can have this signature bag for the low price of $75, with $15 Priority Mail Shipping, includes insurance, and delivery confirmation. Favorable payment terms. So, this Christmas, surprise your loved one with a pre-owned Dooney, a bag whose reputation precedes it.

Bag Height: 9.5′

Bag Length: 12′

Bag Strap: 15.5′

Will negotiate

PayPal, USPS Money Orders, and Personal Checks (must be pre-approved by me) accepted

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